Saturday 6 June 2009

My Uncle Jack.

At junior school my classmates would at 4 o'clock argue as to who would become my best friend for the trip home,the reason being that I would on the short trip home visit my aunt and uncle. After the visit I was always given a shilling (sometimes 2 bob) and my accompanying friend a tanner,the nearby presence of forbouys sweetshop was our much anticipated destination. I did however love to visit anyway, as my uncle was such a pleasant man to visit with his humorous manner and his never ending supply of sweets,war stories and military books. He would occasionally embark on a long model making project for me and each night I was excited to see how my latest model had progressed (Hurry up!). As a youngster I never thought much about my uncle never being at work or never having children,he was just my uncle. Later in life I discovered why.....my uncle was a member of a family that ran a successful coal business in the knotty Ash area of Liverpool.A strapping young man who worked long hard hours he rewarded himself with a motorbike and wearing his leather jacket he cut rather a dashing figure in a rather austere era. With the coming of war in 1939 My uncle joined the Royal Engineers as a dispatch rider and off to a short and no doubt victorious war he went. Six years later he returned,a man no longer in his prime,his youth and energy gone. There was always a stillness about my uncle that even as a child I recognised as different from my other uncles,a sadness.......The tuberculosis that he contracted in a Silesian prison camp took my uncle Jack in 1971.....like many of his generation he gave and never asked....I miss him still.

4 comments:

Vinogirl said...

I still think of J. R. Hardacre every November.

idle said...

Respect to Uncle Jack. The fact that he was always friendly and amusing and generous despite his illness speaks volumes. He had every reason to feel embittered, but didn't show it.

Mother still won't have Japanese goods in the house or a Jap car outside, such is her contempt and anger at what they did to her cousin.

monkey said...

Great post Thud, was his bike a BSA?

lilith said...

ooh, makes me teary. Bless your special uncle.